discussion Str8 males get easily jealous in public when w their wives/gf?

[cockatoo]

They're probably more likely homophobic than jealous of you 

[lustforyou]

I definitely get what youre saying. My best friend of a decade and I always share a bed when we travel (duh lol), and her ex (at home) would get jealous and make it an issue with her. She’s an amazing friend so I didn’t even know that till after they broke up and she never let it dictate our friendship, but it is so bizarre. Her new bf is 10x hotter and laughs when we drunkenly kiss. Some of my other best friends’ boyfriends react the same way, while some are super insecure like the ex.

 

The boyfriends that are secure and don’t gaf are literally always the ones with the better personality, more going on in their lives/better jobs, and in the healthy/happy relationships. The friends I have whose boyfriends get upset at us being too close are always the toxic fling types lol

[RunUpDoneUp]

Yes, straight men are literally on record for being not only the most insecure group on earth, their entire persona is usually crafted around trying to "keep" something within their grasp: hence the murder suicides and the like they're famous for.

[boneyard]

I've noticed that some  straight guys with their women show this sort of hostility/aggression when I hold the door open for their girlfriend/wife as if they see my gay ass as a threat to their relationship 

[John Slayne]

straight men are insecure, possessive, and toxic wbk

[FreeXone]

Many straight men have to jump through hoops, hurdles and push mountains to secure a woman. ((It’s actually not that hard they are just morons))

 

so they try to protect said person as much as possible. Also it’s cause they have fragile

egos. 
 

toxic masculinity all around

[boneyard]

2 hours ago, John Slayne said:

straight men are insecure, possessive, and toxic wbk

Idk how straight women do it because straight cis men are some of the most emotionally ******ed people I've ever come across

[imabadkid]

12 hours ago, boneyard said:

Idk how straight women do it because straight cis men are some of the most emotionally ******ed people I've ever come across

i have a lot of str8 friends and yeah they're exhausting (and some are toxic af... likely toxic masculinity) but most of them just want to have their egos (and d*cks) stroked. tell them how great they are, how smart they are, they're the victim, blah blah blah... i feel for women because it is exhausting but not all are bad (only most).

 

my friend broke up with his gf and took me on a trip to miami with him (he's 100% straight so nothing weird happened, just friends) which i thought was sweet but... yeah a lot of them are a mess.

[katara]

Str8 men know how other str8 men approach women in public (catcalling, harassment, objectifying and even assault in some cases) so they like to make it clear when in public that "their" woman is taken.

 

It's really sad that these same men will happily harass women on the street all day but don't want the same to be done to their GFs.

 

The cycle will never stop. 

Edited April 27, 2023 by katara