Angelo Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 There are countless times in my life where a new guy I met (most of the time they are handsome) from work or acquaintances will invite me for a dinner or hang out then I thought it’s a date but turned out they are straight and they just genuinely enjoy my company. Am I the only one who is experiencing this phenomena? The hard thing is sometimes you hang out in a pub and it involves alcohol and I need to control myself because I gotta respect boundaries. Do you hang out with straight guys ATRL?
Distantconstellation Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 All the time. They just wanna be your friends that's nothing crazy.
KFC Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 It's wild this thread was posted because I'm going through a situation at the moment and it's lowkey leading me to depression I'm in love (romantically) with one of the guys I used to work with (I only quit the job this week) and I know he loves me back but it's definitely in a platonic way whenever I spend time with him for me it feels like we're in a romantic relationship but obviously to him it's just two friends hanging out. I'm pretty sure if I was to push the boundaries when we were both drunk he would let me kiss him or give him a little sucky sucky but I'm trying my best to respect him and his significant other (he's in a long distance relationship with a girl). The wild thing is I'm pretty sure he's trying to **** one of our female colleagues At the moment I'm sure he doesn't realise how much I like him and I hope it doesn't ruin our friendship if/when he does maybe I should just take the plunge and eat his ass
EtherealCat Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 why does it sound like you are bragging about hot guys only wanting to be friends with you?
XAMJ Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 3 minutes ago, EtherealCat said: why does it sound like you are bragging about hot guys only wanting to be friends with you? because deep down inside they wish they were more than just friends and want a justification on if they should make a move on them, idk
shyboi Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 6 minutes ago, HotFriedChicken said: give him a little sucky sucky what's a sucky sucky
KFC Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 1 minute ago, shyboi said: what's a sucky sucky A wet sloppy deepthroated blowjob
Attitude Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 I kind of like it when straight guys feel comfortable enough to hang out platonically with me, one on one.
Angelo Posted April 1, 2023 Author Posted April 1, 2023 10 minutes ago, EtherealCat said: why does it sound like you are bragging about hot guys only wanting to be friends with you? 6 minutes ago, XAMJ said: because deep down inside they wish they were more than just friends and want a justification on if they should make a move on them, idk I'm just being honest. I will not have a problem if they are not my type but at the same time I will not agree to hang out if I don't like the person. Also, maybe I got low standards that's why I see most the straight guys who invite me handsome lol.
ImsoLOUD Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 i can’t wait until we stop putting “straight” men on a pedestal
Power love Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Shame on you! This is exactly why i need a break from this site!
Sergi91 Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 58 minutes ago, HotFriedChicken said: It's wild this thread was posted because I'm going through a situation at the moment and it's lowkey leading me to depression I'm in love (romantically) with one of the guys I used to work with (I only quit the job this week) and I know he loves me back but it's definitely in a platonic way whenever I spend time with him for me it feels like we're in a romantic relationship but obviously to him it's just two friends hanging out. I'm pretty sure if I was to push the boundaries when we were both drunk he would let me kiss him or give him a little sucky sucky but I'm trying my best to respect him and his significant other (he's in a long distance relationship with a girl). The wild thing is I'm pretty sure he's trying to **** one of our female colleagues At the moment I'm sure he doesn't realise how much I like him and I hope it doesn't ruin our friendship if/when he does maybe I should just take the plunge and eat his ass I went through something similar. It’s best if you accept the truth that he will never be more than just friends before it’s too late.
ifyouseekLEM Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 The last straight man that enjoyed my company had me folded up like a pretzel in missionary by the end of our second “bro” bar-crawl.
JohnWayneHolland Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Some of y'all only wanting to be friends with people you find attractive in hopes of something else happening is crazy
Khal Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 This is why y'all can never make friends except for people you want to ****
taemin Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Congrats on… having a friend? I don’t know why gay men being able to befriend straight people is even a discussion.
IBeMe Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 (edited) I have TONS of straight male friends but I get what you are talking about. You are talking about the guys who low key give you mixed signals lol. I never got it until it happened to me last year lol! My theory is that these guys want friends who are more emotionally developed and emotionally available. They want a friend who is open to being vulnerable and maybe enjoy things that their other more "macho" straight friends don't enjoy so they hang out with us gworls cuz we are usually more emotionally developed than straight men and can engage in fun conversations about basically anything...not just sports talk or talking about hot girls they met in a bar etc.. Hanging with us is their chance of bonding with another guy on a different level and it's sometimes their only chance to do that since they have to put up a macho front in front of their other straight male friends. Edited April 1, 2023 by IBeMe
MadonnasBoyfriend Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 I had straight freinds in high school. I cool little straight boy pack. When I told them I was gay post high-school on a reunion hang out they all started hitting me up for bjs But not for anything else like the old days 😔
Johnny Jacobs Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 All of my friends are straight.. And most of them are hot tbh. Thats not really something to be wowed by.. Dont sell yourself short Its not that deep
Badgalbriel Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 1 hour ago, Juanny said: Most of my guy friends are straight to be honest. I want more gay friends though. Most of my guy friends are straight and I can't imagine myself hanging out with gays. Straight guys ate just so chill to hang out with. Gays are always about the drama all the damn time.
Katamari Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 3 hours ago, HotFriedChicken said: It's wild this thread was posted because I'm going through a situation at the moment and it's lowkey leading me to depression I'm in love (romantically) with one of the guys I used to work with (I only quit the job this week) and I know he loves me back but it's definitely in a platonic way whenever I spend time with him for me it feels like we're in a romantic relationship but obviously to him it's just two friends hanging out. I'm pretty sure if I was to push the boundaries when we were both drunk he would let me kiss him or give him a little sucky sucky but I'm trying my best to respect him and his significant other (he's in a long distance relationship with a girl). The wild thing is I'm pretty sure he's trying to **** one of our female colleagues At the moment I'm sure he doesn't realise how much I like him and I hope it doesn't ruin our friendship if/when he does maybe I should just take the plunge and eat his ass No girl don’t do it he sounds like a mess
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