Angelo Posted March 30, 2023 Posted March 30, 2023 I got involved in a car crash years ago but I wasn’t injured. My Aunt called me after she found out and said “I always pray before driving that’s why the Lord always protects us on the road. You should pray too”. A week later she crashed her car and needed to replace her whole bumper and lights.
#Beautiful Posted March 30, 2023 Posted March 30, 2023 21 minutes ago, Angelo said: I got involved in a car crash years ago but I wasn’t injured. My Aunt called me after she found out and said “I always pray before driving that’s why the Lord always protects us on the road. You should pray too”. A week later she crashed her car and needed to replace her whole bumper and lights. god dragged her ass i guess
Wrecked Posted March 30, 2023 Posted March 30, 2023 My best friend (who I had been friends with for well over 10 years) started to act differently towards me when he got a boyfriend. We used to be really close and text pretty much daily but as soon as he got in a relationship he would reply to my messages days later or sometimes ghost me for weeks and use ridiculous excuses like "sorry I've been so busy recently" even though he'd put up stories on Instagram of him on nights out with his boyfriend and his friends. To give some more backstory on our friendship, my friend got kicked out of his house when he came out as being gay and I let him live with me for almost 2 years until he met his boyfriend and moved out to live with him, so we had a really close friendship, but as soon as he got into a relationship he changed and it was basically like he had replaced me. I stopped texting him because if he was going to ghost me for days / weeks I didn't see the point of trying to maintain a friendship he clearly didn't want. So a few months pass by and I've heard nothing from him, so in my mind that just solidified that he no longer gave a ****. Fast forward another few months and he text me out of nowhere to say that he's really missed our friendship and he's not sure what happened between us and then I get to the end of the message to realise why he's texting. He tells me that he found out his boyfriend was cheating on him so they've split up and he no longer has any place to stay and asked if he could move back in with me. I simply replied with "No 💕" and blocked and deleted his number and haven't heard from him since.
zasderfght Posted March 30, 2023 Posted March 30, 2023 (edited) 45 minutes ago, Wrecked said: My best friend (who I had been friends with for well over 10 years) started to act differently towards me when he got a boyfriend. We used to be really close and text pretty much daily but as soon as he got in a relationship he would reply to my messages days later or sometimes ghost me for weeks and use ridiculous excuses like "sorry I've been so busy recently" even though he'd put up stories on Instagram of him on nights out with his boyfriend and his friends. To give some more backstory on our friendship, my friend got kicked out of his house when he came out as being gay and I let him live with me for almost 2 years until he met his boyfriend and moved out to live with him, so we had a really close friendship, but as soon as he got into a relationship he changed and it was basically like he had replaced me. I stopped texting him because if he was going to ghost me for days / weeks I didn't see the point of trying to maintain a friendship he clearly didn't want. So a few months pass by and I've heard nothing from him, so in my mind that just solidified that he no longer gave a ****. Fast forward another few months and he text me out of nowhere to say that he's really missed our friendship and he's not sure what happened between us and then I get to the end of the message to realise why he's texting. He tells me that he found out his boyfriend was cheating on him so they've split up and he no longer has any place to stay and asked if he could move back in with me. I simply replied with "No 💕" and blocked and deleted his number and haven't heard from him since. As someone who's in a relationship, I will say it can be difficult to make time for friends in-person-- especially if they don't live near you or your S/O's place. However, your gut instinct was correct, and this guy was totally taking advantage of you. I can understand taking a few days to get back, but to outright ghost you? Friends don't forget each other like that. And then to conveniently apologize right as his boyfriend left the picture. Horrible timing. Don't worry. I've had friends that were as distasteful as you described, and you realize you were much better off. Edited March 30, 2023 by zasderfght
Whis Posted March 30, 2023 Posted March 30, 2023 58 minutes ago, Wrecked said: My best friend (who I had been friends with for well over 10 years) started to act differently towards me when he got a boyfriend. We used to be really close and text pretty much daily but as soon as he got in a relationship he would reply to my messages days later or sometimes ghost me for weeks and use ridiculous excuses like "sorry I've been so busy recently" even though he'd put up stories on Instagram of him on nights out with his boyfriend and his friends. To give some more backstory on our friendship, my friend got kicked out of his house when he came out as being gay and I let him live with me for almost 2 years until he met his boyfriend and moved out to live with him, so we had a really close friendship, but as soon as he got into a relationship he changed and it was basically like he had replaced me. I stopped texting him because if he was going to ghost me for days / weeks I didn't see the point of trying to maintain a friendship he clearly didn't want. So a few months pass by and I've heard nothing from him, so in my mind that just solidified that he no longer gave a ****. Fast forward another few months and he text me out of nowhere to say that he's really missed our friendship and he's not sure what happened between us and then I get to the end of the message to realise why he's texting. He tells me that he found out his boyfriend was cheating on him so they've split up and he no longer has any place to stay and asked if he could move back in with me. I simply replied with "No 💕" and blocked and deleted his number and haven't heard from him since. As you should. I would've done the same.
duybeeGAshantiGA Posted March 30, 2023 Posted March 30, 2023 (edited) Ive experienced some myself. I paid hard for it and let me tell you: we can't escape or cheat Karma. Trust me! Lemme tell 1 story real quick. When I was a young teen I made a big mistake. I stole a laptop from my one of my family members and days later I went to a old computer store in my city to sell it, only to randomly meet that family member there going there to sell sth else of hers. It's def karma since there are hundreds of stores like that in my city how on earth we ended up at the same store and at the same time. That didnt make sense. Someone may say that she spy-ed me but nope Im 100% sure she didnt know about it. Also she did not catch when I sold it, she came like when I already took the money, it' like God just wanted to scare the **** out of me and warn me to not do it again. Never take anything that's not yours. Edited March 30, 2023 by duybeeGAshantiGA
Wrecked Posted March 30, 2023 Posted March 30, 2023 16 minutes ago, zasderfght said: As someone who's in a relationship, I will say it can be difficult to make time for friends in-person-- especially if they don't live near you or your S/O's place. However, your gut instinct was correct, and this guy was totally taking advantage of you. I can understand taking a few days to get back, but to outright ghost you? Friends don't forget each other like that. And then to conveniently apologize right as his boyfriend left the picture. Horrible timing. Don't worry. I've had friends that were as distasteful as you described, and you realize you were much better off. Oh don't get me wrong, I'm not a needy friend or person in general and I actually love spending time alone, but he completely changed when he got into a relationship. It was also the fact he'd be constantly posting Instagram stories out with his boyfriends friends but he'd always be 'really busy' to reply to any of my texts. I don't care what type of life somebody lives, it doesn't take somebody over a week to reply to a simple text lol. I remember when Halloween (2018) came out and we were both huge fans of the franchise, so I text asking if he wanted to come and see it but he said he probably won't have the time, only to then go with two of his 'new' friends a week after I asked. I personally think his boyfriend was controlling as he didn't hang out with any of our friendship circle once getting into a relationship, but had no problem doing things with his boyfriends friends. I'm still close with everybody from my circle but he's completely out of the picture now as everybody has cut him off. I think it hurt me more just because of how close we were and the fact I let him live with me for almost 2 years, with one of those years being RENT FREE and he just discards me like it was nothing because he now had a boyfriend. To be fair, he did me a favour, because at least he's out of my life now and I'm only surrounded by loyal people now.
MadonnasBoyfriend Posted March 30, 2023 Posted March 30, 2023 My older sister used to make fun of Madonnas age now she's the age Madonna was when she used to make fun of her
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