discussion Are u friends with metheads? Have u hooked up with any?

[Breathe On Moi]

10 minutes ago, West Coast said:

Yes there is so much stigma around meth but it is really bad when abused (like any other drug)

there is so much stigma about meth? like

, there are normal functioning people that use meth casually is what you’re trying to say? 

[Johnny Jacobs]

Never

I never get anywhere near that ****

Edited March 26, 2023 by Johnny Jacobs

[Orsay]

I had a few friends in high school who got into that stuff, it turns them all into liars thieves and crooks. Stay away

[princedonte]

Never both of my parents were drug heads. My mom still is and it’s hell on earth. Drugs are my mortal enemy my moms drug use has been a stain in my entire life. I would rather die than be with an addict. 

[AvadaKedavra]

41 minutes ago, Speaker Phone said:

Good for you!!! What a heartwarming post. Hope everything continues to be BRIGHT for you sis.

Aww thank you so much dahling
Sometimes i get the cravings for corruption but then i look at the blue skies and i remember the beautiful things from life and try to find my way back home
Sometimes this world is very convoluted,evil and challengin and we all cope in different ways and some of them can be dangerous like addiction
The pandemic was a horrible time but it allowed me to have some sort of Spiritual Awakening
I forgave myself and i found the most valuable things in life. It Was In Me
Sometimes we all treat ourselves like **** we feel guilty from our past... but we dont realize how we are victims of the circumstances and wrongdoings of life
How many *** up things we went through. Is impressive how we are still here. 
 Of course after forgiving myself i moved on. U must.
You take the good, the bad and Breathe  One day at a time.
 

 

Edited March 26, 2023 by AvadaKedavra

[fememeist]

Nope I don’t wanna look like that girl from the Exorcist

[Nano]

1 hour ago, Breathe On Moi said:

there is so much stigma about meth? like

, there are normal functioning people that use meth casually is what you’re trying to say? 

Literally yes. You shouldn't pay too much mind to all the fearmongering out there.

[Power love]

I had one but he was always on Grinder talking about PNP. I said to him what does that mean?

 

 He said mind your business you not ready for this level yet. 

[Pacify Him]

Yes. They’re some of the most accommodating to your needs. I’ve been bred by one so many times and I still end up hiv-

[fememeist]

8 minutes ago, Power love said:

 

 He said mind your business you not ready for this level yet. 

He’s doing you a big favor and not involving his destructive actions onto you

[Breathe On Moi]

40 minutes ago, Nano said:

Literally yes. You shouldn't pay too much mind to all the fearmongering out there.

baby it’s literally meth, it’s METH! it’s METH! there’s literally no fear mongering needed to know it’s not ok and ruin lives! 

[FightForTanas]

2 hours ago, AvadaKedavra said:

Not hooked up but i had so so many friends totally addicted and they were trying to get me into that world of Bareback sex,Pigs,Orgies and slam-meth.tina-coke-oxy and all that hard stuff  

I was depressed for a long time in the 2010s cause i been through really bad stuff in my life and i thought gettin in touch with darkness and hedonism was my only path. Unhappiness can led you to self destruction and self-hate. 

back in 2020 i was sad and havin sex left and right with no control and i almost got into that "community" but then the pandemic happened........
 

After the pandemic i revaluated my life and learned ways to cope with my sadness 
In the last year i was able to reconnect  with my old self and i regained back my happiness
Deleted all my dangerous contacts and closed the door forever.
Now i shine bright no addictions. just livin the good life. Takin care of my health and body.
Now i have new hobbies 
I polish up Real Nice and im so happy tbh  

 

 

 

[Slap]

2 hours ago, JoeAg said:

yes, i've definitely been friends with several, of all genders tbh. i was "best friends" (it was more I was their best friend rather than them being mine as well) with this person (afab non-binary) from around november 2021-august 2022 and at their core they've a heart of gold. but they've been addicted to everything from coke to meth to fent, and their self-destructive patterns just became way too much for me to be around. they're a horrible driver (I swear to god I've had at least a dozen near death experiences in their tesla), they constantly lose all their possessions, they can't keep a job, they're selfish with their friends, they insult people's appearances nonstop whenever we hang out, they're willingly staying in an extremely troubling marriage (they're 23 and their husband is 21 and a total assshole). they have NO self-respect, and it depresses tf out of me. now I won't claim to be perfect, or a relationship expert or anything, but I've tried to help them get away from their husband several times and they simply refuse any sort of help. I miss the way our friendship was for those first four-ish months back in late 2021-early 2022 sometimes, but idk how to help them at this point. I helped them find a rehab, and really pressured them to keep attending it (outpatient program) but they just kept giving up. I keep them at a distance because I just graduated uni and I have so many things I plan to do to better myself and become a successful person, and I simply cannot afford to be impulsive with them at 4 am every night in the middle of denver when i have a 9 am shift like I used to. I've never done T or anything, but they would do it right in front of me all the time, and they'd pressure me to go out clubbing until the early hours of the morning and it was just BAD. they're not the only person I've been friends with who's had this sort of lifestyle. it's so depressing and all too prevalent in the city

I’m so confused as to how a 23 year old addict is driving a Tesla and is somehow married to a 21 year old thay sounds so weird sorry you had to deal with that ****. 

[JoeAg]

4 minutes ago, Slap said:

I’m so confused as to how a 23 year old addict is driving a Tesla and is somehow married to a 21 year old thay sounds so weird sorry you had to deal with that ****. 

thanks, yeah it was ROUGH i gotta say

 

um so they were an onlyfans creator for a VERY long time and they were in the top 3%, so at their peak their income was about $15k a month! they crashed their tesla several times so it was always a mess whenever I was in it with them. and they met that dude at a goth night thing we used to frequent last year, and tbh at first both of us thought he was at least 30

[JustLikeHoney]

2 hours ago, Allday said:

No i've had a friend ive known for 25 years, but as soon as he got into crack/meth! I havent heard from him since, through away a 25 ******* year friendship!

 

and another friend who was a former meth user, randomly blocked me out of the blue after doing so many favours for her!  clearly she's back on the hard drugs again

 

thankfully meth people don't like being around sober people because where are they gonna get the drugs?  and i'm glad too.

 

 

They know what they are doing is wrong and they isolate themselves from people who aren't users. 

 

 

[FreeXone]

I have fiends who have struggled with meth addiction so yes

 

Hook up, no. I hate hooking up with guys who party they are on another level.

 

I have had clients who party though so to answer the question yes and yes.

 

 

[The7thStranger]

No. I have no tolerance for that sort of thing. It’s hard enough coping with family members who struggle with addiction. I don’t tolerate it my chosen family. 

[RunUpDoneUp]

I'm not white so never met a methhead tbh.

 

Have met a couple black gays who are crackheads though.

[thetea]

6 hours ago, JohnWayneHolland said:

Tbh the only drug I'm okay with is weed, but I'm turned off by people who smoke weed several times a day everyday, i do weed but it's like once a month, i think once a week would still be fine with me tho.

same tbh. 

 

i personally couldn't be friends with people like that, being around people doing that would probably make me want to do it as well and I've seen how horrible meth addicts look and behave. I do like weed and vaping though.

[Reginald]

Not the user in here trying to normalize meth usage?!   

 

Like, sure, go ahead if you want someone around who will lie, cheat, and threaten everyone who loves them, in order to get their next hit.

[KillingYourCareer]

Absolutely not. I like straight edge guys.

[liver]

the way some users try to normalize meth addiction and want to act like it's not something worth judging  

 

 

 

[imabadkid]

I didn’t really realize just how prevalent it is until you start going out and meeting people… even guys who you’d never expect are into that sort of thing.

 

this is why personally I’m more into bi/self identified str8s basically guys who aren’t in the gay world because the gworls really are out here methed and pnp’d out and it’s a huge turnoff for me and a bit weird

  

Edited March 26, 2023 by imabadkid

[AvadaKedavra]

8 hours ago, FightForTanas said:

 

Thank u beau. There's nothing like soberness 
Sex is a great thing-physiological need but is totally better to live it in a healthier way.

Drugs can be destructive.
Meth can ruin your brain and your heart. Coke can give u arrhythmias and in the States is very unclean and laced with fentanyl.
So many overdoses every year.  

 

5 hours ago, Reginald said:

Not the user in here trying to normalize meth usage?!   

 

Like, sure, go ahead if you want someone around who will lie, cheat, and threaten everyone who loves them, in order to get their next hit.

His posts in the Roof are the funniest thing  One of my fave members 
Youre right. Some of my meth heads friends only wanted me cause i promised to pay for their meth balls-coke bags-sex clubs
They can be very hostile and rude  

[ChrisTheLoner]

Not that one member trying to normalize literal ME!TH  I've truly seen it all on here now 

 

ot: No, I've never been friends with anyone like that and thank god for that 

 

Addiction is a very serious thing that can ruin lives and I rly don't wanna be around that.