Whats the most selfish thing you have ever done ?

[MoonGoodandHappy]

I worked in a hospital where I did housework and there were 3 floors with a broom for each staff. At one point I broke my broom and wasnt able to clean anymore, so I stole the broom from a co-worker on the 2nd floor and replaced it with my broken broom. He was still serving food to the residents of the hospital (because before cleaning we have to give food to the residents of the hospital) and therefore hadn't seen that I had stolen his broom.

 

 

I was not proud of myselft this day. 

 

What is the most selfish thing you've ever done ?

Edited March 3, 2023 by MoonGoodandHappy

[Solaria]

Ghosted a friend without giving her any sort of explanation because I was too coward to tell her I didn’t want to be friends with her anymore

[MoonGoodandHappy]

3 minutes ago, Love Again said:

Ghosted a friend without giving her any sort of explanation because I was too coward to tell her I didn’t want to be friends with her anymore

you're a scorpio, right ?

 

 

[youreyesgocold]

I had two uncles come to me for $5k cash in the span of two months because they were struggling paycheque to paycheque. One lost his car the other had an empty fridge. I said no sis I am trying to buy a condo 
 

Just signed for my condo on wednesday. I don’t regret it but I feel guilty anyways.

 

_{(for context these two uncles have leeched money from my mother for years on the scale of tens of thousands - I’m sorry I’m not getting involved in that with my own hard earned money. At 50+ it’s too late time to learn how to budget your own expenses)}

[MoonGoodandHappy]

1 minute ago, youreyesgocold said:

I had two uncles come to me for $5k cash in the span of two months because they were struggling paycheque to paycheque. One lost his car the other had an empty fridge. I said no sis I am trying to buy a condo 
 

Just signed for my condo on wednesday. I don’t regret it but I feel guilty anyways.

 

_{(for context these two uncles have leeched money from my mother for years on the scale of tens of thousands - I’m sorry I’m not getting involved in that with my own hard earned money. At 50+ it’s too late time to learn how to budget your own expenses)}

You were right 

[youreyesgocold]

3 minutes ago, MoonGoodandHappy said:

You were right 

Thanks for the validation sis  

[Timber]

7 minutes ago, youreyesgocold said:

I had two uncles come to me for $5k cash in the span of two months because they were struggling paycheque to paycheque. One lost his car the other had an empty fridge. I said no sis I am trying to buy a condo 
 

Just signed for my condo on wednesday. I don’t regret it but I feel guilty anyways.

 

_{(for context these two uncles have leeched money from my mother for years on the scale of tens of thousands - I’m sorry I’m not getting involved in that with my own hard earned money. At 50+ it’s too late time to learn how to budget your own expenses)}

That’s gonna be such a struggle for me as someone who will soon be working as a doctor and has a crazy amount of family members. And I’m known to be super nice…Im gonna make my excuse that I can’t cuz I’m paying loans but then I bet they’re gonna talk behind my back if/when I decide to get nice things.

[MoonGoodandHappy]

7 minutes ago, youreyesgocold said:

Thanks for the validation sis  

[youreyesgocold]

2 minutes ago, Timber said:

That’s gonna be such a struggle for me as someone who will soon be working as a doctor and has a crazy amount of family members. And I’m known to be super nice…Im gonna make my excuse that I can’t cuz I’m paying loans but then I bet they’re gonna talk behind my back if/when I decide to get nice things.

Oh I’m so sorry girl, it’s the freaking worst. I put myself through school and got a computer engineering degree and make a decent salary - so I can empathize. But being a doctor is on another level. I can understand when people didn’t have the same opportunities in life and need help - but that doesn’t mean you should be a charity after all your hard work either. You put in that time so that you can get the stuff you want. Other people don’t put in the time and expect everyone else to get them what they want. That’s what I keep telling myself so I can suppress my guilt. 
 

Low key 10 months ago I would have given them it. But in June I was diagnosed with a brain tumour and was wheeled into surgery 24 hours later to remove it. My whole outlook on life has changed after that trauma. It’s ok to care about yourself first. You matter too 

[Timber]

10 minutes ago, youreyesgocold said:

Oh I’m so sorry girl, it’s the freaking worst. I put myself through school and got a computer engineering degree and make a decent salary - so I can empathize. But being a doctor is on another level. I can understand when people didn’t have the same opportunities in life and need help - but that doesn’t mean you should be a charity after all your hard work either. You put in that time so that you can get the stuff you want. Other people don’t put in the time and expect everyone else to get them what they want. That’s what I keep telling myself so I can suppress my guilt. 
 

Low key 10 months ago I would have given them it. But in June I was diagnosed with a brain tumour and was wheeled into surgery 24 hours later to remove it. My whole outlook on life has changed after that trauma. It’s ok to care about yourself first. You matter too 

Thank you. You’re so sweet! I’m so glad your survived that. The world needs more people like you!  

[Alldeezy]

Can't remember 

[fauxtography]

My ex gay bestie had a guy he was "on the fence about" and hanging out with. one day we all went out clubbing and i made a move and ended up hooking up with him.

 

my ex gay bestie was rightfully upset and i acted like i had no control over my decision making when i absolutely did.

 

our friendship was never the same. It's one of those "yeah that was really shitty but I was young - cant blame me now" kinda memories that still makes me cringe so i guess i'm cursed with the karma of still feeling guilty about it years later.

 

[Biggie]

Couldn't tell ya. I cheat lie and steal daily. I'm a horrible person.

 

I guess in the sense of pure selfishness, I was driving drunk (that alone is a qualifier), made a turn way too fast and ended up lightly swiping the back of a car passing the other way and slamming into a street sign and utility box. I ran to grab my front license plate that fell off and drove into the nearest neighborhood to hide for two hours before heading home. I had to take public transportation and hide my car in a friend's garage for a month before getting it repaired in case there was a watch out. Bad.

Edited March 4, 2023 by Biggie