Europe Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 Like when they go to the gay clubs and then get offended if you hit on them.
PoisonedIvy Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 i do not waste my time caring about stuff like this personally
Cheers Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 It's annoying tbh. More straight girls keep bringing their straight boyfriends/guy friends to gay areas. They're taking over
Big Bad Wolf Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 I don’t see the issue with it. Especially when AAVE and black culture in general is being appropriated by the masses. Straight people saying “yassss gawd slay sis!” isn’t doing any harm. And straight people going to gay clubs isn’t either. Sure, they could be kinder when they reject you but who cares. On to the next. It’s nothing world stopping.
Big Bad Wolf Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 2 minutes ago, Cheers said: It's annoying tbh. More straight girls keep bringing their straight boyfriends/guy friends to gay areas. They're taking over And when straight people don’t want us in their clubs, then what? You’ll cry homophobia. Just find another guy to hook up with. It’s really a non-issue. Stop thinking with your dicks.
Cheers Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 1 minute ago, Big Bad Wolf said: And when straight people don’t want us in their clubs, then what? You’ll cry homophobia. Compare the amount of straight clubs vs gay clubs there's a reason we had to create our own nightlife be serious
LittleStarmen Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 thats why gay clubs are awful on weekends nowadays and cant forget how Women have no shame on SA gay men
ninasayers Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 7 minutes ago, Big Bad Wolf said: And when straight people don’t want us in their clubs, then what? You’ll cry homophobia. Just find another guy to hook up with. It’s really a non-issue. Stop thinking with your dicks. One of the dumbest posts I've seen.
Big Bad Wolf Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 Just now, Cheers said: Compare the amount of straight clubs vs gay clubs there's a reason we had to create our own nightlife be serious Be serious, a straight couple in a gay space isn’t doing any inherent harm to the community. Straight people are giving these gay establishments money, drag bunches especially. One less guy you have a chance of going home with isn’t harmful to the community. You basically want gay and straight establishments to be segregated for that reason? It’s petty. It’s a nonissue. They aren’t coming into the space to hurt anyone, they’re just trying to enjoy their night as you are. Surely there isn’t a shortage of gay men frequenting those places either. Be careful what you wish for. Then when straight people don’t want gays in, that opens the flood gates for race segregated establishments. Is that really the road we should go down because you couldn’t hook up with that straight girls boyfriend? Please.
Big Bad Wolf Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 Just now, ninasayers said: One of the dumbest posts I've seen. How sis?
Cheers Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 Just now, Big Bad Wolf said: Be serious, a straight couple in a gay space isn’t doing any inherent harm to the community. Straight people are giving these gay establishments money, drag bunches especially. One less guy you have a chance of going home with isn’t harmful to the community. You basically want gay and straight establishments to be segregated for that reason? It’s petty. It’s a nonissue. They aren’t coming into the space to hurt anyone, they’re just trying to enjoy their night as you are. Surely there isn’t a shortage of gay men frequenting those places either. Be careful what you wish for. Then when straight people don’t want gays in, that opens the flood gates for race segregated establishments. Is that really the road we should go down because you couldn’t hook up with that straight girls boyfriend? Please. Them being there and enjoying their time isn't the problem. Them taking over and being annoying in our spaces is the problem. It's our space to feel comfortable not being judged or looked at weird. And yes I know it's not all of them but it's getting more common. And when did I mention hooking up with them lol 7 minutes ago, LittleStarmen said: thats why gay clubs are awful on weekends nowadays and cant forget how Women have no shame on SA gay men And they think they can say all kinds of crazy shite to us too
K$Ellie Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 1 minute ago, Big Bad Wolf said: Be serious, a straight couple in a gay space isn’t doing any inherent harm to the community. Straight people are giving these gay establishments money, drag bunches especially. One less guy you have a chance of going home with isn’t harmful to the community. You basically want gay and straight establishments to be segregated for that reason? It’s petty. It’s a nonissue. They aren’t coming into the space to hurt anyone, they’re just trying to enjoy their night as you are. Surely there isn’t a shortage of gay men frequenting those places either. Be careful what you wish for. Then when straight people don’t want gays in, that opens the flood gates for race segregated establishments. Is that really the road we should go down because you couldn’t hook up with that straight girls boyfriend? Please. you're focusing on this one point when the issue is more so straight girls bringing their homophobic boyfriends to these places or straight girls that love their gay best friends but are disgusted by the thought of lesbians hitting on them
Big Bad Wolf Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 1 minute ago, Cheers said: Them being there and enjoying their time isn't the problem. Them taking over and being annoying in our spaces is the problem. It's our space to feel comfortable not being judged or looked at weird. And yes I know it's not all of them but it's getting more common. And when did I mention hooking up with them lol And they think they can say all kinds of crazy shite to us too But that’s anywhere you go. Gay people can be just as judgmental if not worse to their own. I’ve personally met quite a few straight people in gay clubs that I ended up becoming friends with outside of there. Some are genuine allies. A few bad apples shouldn’t ruin it for the ones that genuinely support us.
ninasayers Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 3 minutes ago, Big Bad Wolf said: How sis? Saying "And when straight people don’t want us in their clubs, then what?" when that already happens anyway is just most clubs are straight ones and most lgbt people don't feel safe going to those. I don't think that straight people shouldn't go to gay clubs at all, but I do see where some of the concerns come from and it's not at all comparable to the idea of straight people not allowing us entry into their clubs which, again, are the majority.
Into The Void Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 its been a while since ive been to a club lol but I havent seen this as an issue in the past
Helios Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 I just dislike when they use slang but hate the group they use it from. This happens too much and its tiring.
imabadkid Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 45 minutes ago, Lipgloss said: As long as they co-opt this hole.
GentleEarthquake Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 It's ok if they are respectful and understand they should NOT invade those safe spaces with their negativity and ignorance. Otherwise, get the f out
LittleStarmen Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 40 minutes ago, Cheers said: Them being there and enjoying their time isn't the problem. Them taking over and being annoying in our spaces is the problem. It's our space to feel comfortable not being judged or looked at weird. And yes I know it's not all of them but it's getting more common. And when did I mention hooking up with them lol And they think they can say all kinds of crazy shite to us too The first thing i straight guy do at a gay club is tell everyone around him he is not guy and the get pissed if someone flirts with him. then the girlfriend starts touching your "cute" butt
Domination Posted February 25, 2023 Posted February 25, 2023 I don’t really think about it. The GSM community annoys me as much as cishet people these days.
Peroxide Posted February 26, 2023 Posted February 26, 2023 2 hours ago, Big Bad Wolf said: And when straight people don’t want us in their clubs, then what? You’ll cry homophobia. Just find another guy to hook up with. It’s really a non-issue. Stop thinking with your dicks. It’s a lot more complicated than that unfortunately. Time and time again when I see lots of cis/het folk going to gay clubs the club itself changes. The atmosphere/music/clientele looses its queer identity over time and then it just becomes yet another club. It’s important that we have safe spaces for queer people, especially in regards to nightlife…
Tylerbv Posted February 26, 2023 Posted February 26, 2023 I don't care. If the alternative is homophobia, this is a non-issue.
Communion Posted February 26, 2023 Posted February 26, 2023 3 hours ago, Big Bad Wolf said: And when straight people don’t want us in their clubs, then what? You’ll cry homophobia. Just find another guy to hook up with. It’s really a non-issue. Stop thinking with your dicks. Sis, it's not heterophobia to say people should expect to be hit on by people of the same gender if they go to a space that is dedicated and organized around people attracted to the same gender hitting on one another. Of course people have the right to politely decline, but the OP's point is when people enter that space and then have often extremely negative or even violent reactions to such expected behaviors.
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