Choose: having sex with your crush OR your crush loves you back but can't be together

[MonsterJohn]

If there are 2 imagine scenarios presents to you, would you choose to have sex with your crush (maybe once) but he never has feeling for you OR having him loves you back but you can't be together? 

 

P/S: for the people that choose sex, do u consider how painful it is to be physically closed to the one you love while knowingly aware that he's not into you romantically?

I actually asked a guy out and he said he's only interested in physical. I chose to walk away. Ultimately I feel that I made the right choice to not let myself falling into the trap of failing hope.

Edited January 23, 2023 by MonsterJohn

[lovedaddy]

SEX >>>

[TanjiroKamado]

Option a

 

[FolkLover1989]

Option B

 

Crush loving you back is like your love is validated from both sides

Edited January 23, 2023 by FolkLover1989

[ontherocks]

5 minutes ago, lovedaddy said:

SEX >>>

In a nutshell 

[ProudLBS]

Option A is basically option B but with sex

[Alldeezy]

Hmm my crush is Allday so I'd kinda would like him to be in love with me tbh. I mean dating be hard anyways since he probably be on tour all the time 

 

And well im sure I'd be able to hop on his dick once or twice 

 

[cOe]

The second statement is actually true in my case lol. so definitely the sex

[LustSpell]

I'll take the sex for a quick fix and find someone who actually loves me later

[AlanRickman1946]

24 minutes ago, cOe said:

The second statement is actually true in my case lol. so definitely the sex

Why can't you be together?

[WildHeart]

B

[industry baby]

Having sex 

[Buffy]

So this is like a magical wish you want to come true? Neither then because both are non-consensual and A is rape.

 

Also if these are the only two choices maybe that’s why you can’t have either one. Love yourself.

Edited January 23, 2023 by Buffy

[terrorblade]

who in their right mind would choose b like what's the point of being in love if you can never physically meet

[Karma88]

Sex

[pearlmercury]

SEX 

[MonsterJohn]

5 minutes ago, Buffy said:

So this is like a magical wish you want to come true? Neither then because both are non-consensual and A is rape.

 

Also if these are the only two choices maybe that’s why you can’t have either one. Love yourself.

Let me rephrase it. It's not a wish but 2 possible scenarios that you can choose. 

 

I don't get why you are fuming about a simple imagine cases

[Fetish]

The biggest crush of my life is now my boyfriend so I cannot choose 

[cOe]

35 minutes ago, AlanRickman1946 said:

Why can't you be together?

We were terrible for each other despite our chemistry. We basically rejected each other for our own good. He did want to come back into my life a few times but I wasn't having it. The feelings are kinda still there tho

[AlanRickman1946]

34 minutes ago, Buffy said:

So this is like a magical wish you want to come true? Neither then because both are non-consensual and A is rape.

 

Also if these are the only two choices maybe that’s why you can’t have either one. Love yourself.

[Badgalbriel]

so in both situations you will not be together. Why chose B, then? 

[Bacardo Royale]

regular sex is good enough

[Pheromosa]

Who on earth would pick B 

[Miichael]

Option A as option b is just pointless

[aesthetic bih]

Option B cuz that means you guys can always be great friends unlike A where they don't care you after the deed