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I've gone on two dates with this one guy and they were honestly the best I think I've ever been on. We text a few times a day since we won't be meeting up again until the holidays. I told him that I wished he was with me and he said, "Girl you know if I could be there I'd be there ASAP!".

 

It was an INSTANT boner killer for me and kind of killed the vibes we were having.

 

Should I go on another date with him, or not see him again after that?

 

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Yikes. It's an instant turn off for me too :toofunny3:

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girl bye

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So?

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Grow up. 

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tbh it’s not that he’s using “girl” in a sentence that’s bad for me, it’s the fact that using that term automatically puts someone in the friendzone, specially in the context. someone I’m freshly dating and interested in using it like that would turn me off too. 
 

i see where you’re coming from 

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felt this in my soul. reminds me of when i use their bathroom to double check my dush-job and i see their girly beauty products when they were trying to act all masc

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You're gay, why are you shocked? That's a dumb reason to end things. If that's your limit good luck spending an eternity on your own.

Kimmo

 

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You're the girl in the relationship so

 

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4 minutes ago, Jaye said:

You're gay, why are you shocked? That's a dumb reason to end things. If that's your limit good luck spending an eternity on your own.

Kimmo

 

literally...

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If he is nice, no. But the final decision is still on you... 

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10 minutes ago, Jaye said:

You're gay, why are you shocked? That's a dumb reason to end things. If that's your limit good luck spending an eternity on your own.

Kimmo

 

Idk I just feel like that's more of a friend thing to call someone?

 

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14 minutes ago, Juanny said:

Are you 16 or something? Because if you're not this thread is embarrassing. 

 

Nope, I'm 21 but just wanted to gather some other outside opinions!

 

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Spoiler

 

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Girl

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29 minutes ago, Bethenny Frankel said:

It was an INSTANT boner killer for me and kind of killed the vibes we were having.

Aren't you the bottom? Why does it matter if you get a boner or not?

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1 minute ago, Nano said:

Aren't you the bottom? Why does it matter if you get a boner or not?

It's 2022, if you aren't vers, you're missing out.

 

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You’re on ATRL with a Bethenny Frankel avi miss thing…no one buys it that you’re so masc that you get triggered by being called girl 🙄

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You should train him to call you Baby Gorgeous instead

 

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It’s pretty messed up he didn’t use your preferred gender pronouns. 
 

You should stop talking to him. 

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Girl.

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29 minutes ago, BionicWooHoo said:

You’re on ATRL with a Bethenny Frankel avi miss thing…no one buys it that you’re so masc that you get triggered by being called girl 🙄

wait

 

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now girl

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