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Have you had an asexual phase?

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shookspeare

Yes! I've been celibate for a year after a breakup to sort out my issues and focus on myself :-* i'm really enjoying it tbh, I have major STD anxiety and i have vulnerability issues that sex exacerbates so i think it's best to keep it like that for the foreseeable future :biblio:

 

my last relationship ended bc i stopped wanting to have sex, it just became such a chore and i found myself starting to become sex-repulsed. maybe that will change in the future if i meet a guy who's not trash, but for now i'm pure

 

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Gabriel Florin

Yes. I was just in a point of my life where I really reaised I have absolutely and no attraction to girls. And my mind was automatically rejecting the idea of any kind of possible gay stuff, so I was just here ... confused and thinking about asexuality.

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Touch It

I wouldn't say I'm asexual but I'm not really looking for a relationship and don't have that much of a sex drive. I still want a spouse in the future and want to raise a family but honestly, I don't really find sex that appealing :dancehall:

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Illuminati

I don't think being celibate is the same as being asexual but yes there were times when I genuinely didn't feel attracted to anyone

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Tori Kelly

I thought I was for like forever. Had a few encounters with just about everyone sex now and felt bi for a long time afterwards, but honestly I feel like I am still ace and that me sleeping with a ton of people was just to compensate for not feeling anything sexually...like maybe going through the motions and labeling myself differently would change things...like I used to hate myself when I identified with it but now I think I understand it better. I definitely am romantic to anyone, but sexually still not really.

 

Anyone care to help me out in understanding this? It honestly been on my brain for months...

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Pendulum

@Nikko people back home don't even know what is an asexual :rip: 

 

OT: Yes, came out to my now ex-girlfriend as an asexual :'( then bisexual :shakeno: and then I dropped the bomb :sistrens:

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ProfessorNinja

I'm for sure Homosexual with some heavy Asexual leanings

 

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Physical Intimacy IS great, but it's emotional intimacy that drives me wild

and also what I'm afraid of, in equal turns

 

Intimacy, period, makes me afraid

 

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I go through periods where I'm not attracted to anyone and Just want to do my own thing out in life

I know that's not cut + dry to fit "ASeXuAL" but this stuff never is, it's all complicated

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Pop Life
3 hours ago, Ohno said:

Yes I'm asexual for 30 minutes after having Sex

 

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:priceless:

 

OT: I legitimately had no interest in men or sex for a couple of years earlier this decade. I had plenty of offers, so it wasn't involuntary. I just genuinely didn't want to. Even now I usually prefer a nice cup of tea to sex.

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joniwasright
3 hours ago, Pendulum said:

OT: Yes, came out to my now ex-girlfriend as an asexual :'( then bisexual :shakeno: and then I dropped the bomb :sistrens:

:deadbanana2:

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