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View Poll Results: Does it bother you when a bi says theyre gay or straight?
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5/21/2012, 5:56 PM
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Or maybe that one person only thought they were attracted to one sex before that occurrence? That doesn't make them a liar.
I'm saying that within the right circumstances, it's possible for anyone to hook up.
Men in prison who have sex with each other are not gay, and they are not bisexual.
Men deeply in the closet who have sex with their wives and have 6 kids are not straight, nor are they bisexual.
But everyone in any of those scenarios has an intuitive preference that will stay with them forever despite their activity or their circumstances...
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Just stop already
There's more to it then just sex. If u don't believe in bisexuality, then u shouldn't believe in heterosexuality or homosexuality either 
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5/21/2012, 6:17 PM
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Slightly off topic, but I used being bisexual as a way of partially coming out to some close friends. I'm not bisexual, tho.
Last week I finally told my best friend that I'm completely gay. I got tired of him trying to hook me up with random hussies, so I finally told him I'm gay. We're cool, tho. 
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5/21/2012, 6:52 PM
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It's their own business if they admit that to themselves or not.
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5/21/2012, 6:54 PM
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Another person's sexuality is none of my business.
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5/21/2012, 6:55 PM
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Lawd. Allot of Gay people complain about people Don't like it when straight or religious people claim Homosexuality doesn't really exist or that it's a choice. But gay people do the exact same thing to bisexuals? I'm over hypocrisy. We get enough Hate in the LGBT community. Why not all stick together?
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Lawd. Allot of Gay people complain about people Don't like it when straight or religious people claim Homosexuality doesn't really exist or that it's a choice. But gay people do the exact same thing to bisexuals? I'm over hypocrisy. We get enough Hate in the LGBT community. Why not all stick together?
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THIS!
I don't understand the delusion AT ALL when it comes to people supporting the existence of homosexuality but not bisexuality. People are attracted to all sorts of different things and thats fine- it exists, it happens.
I don't know why people are calling this gay/bi/straight stuff 'labeling' ive never understood that. As if it was a bad stereotype. It's just saying what the truth is- If you're only physically attracted to the same sex you are gay, if you are only attracted to the opposite sex you are straight, and if you are physically attracted to both you are bisexual. To me its just a genetic fact sort of thing. Like our gender or hair color. It doesn't mean im LABELING someone or degrading them if I want them to accept the fact that they are blond. So why does it get confusing when people are honest about sexuality? 
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5/21/2012, 9:47 PM
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THIS!
I don't understand the delusion AT ALL when it comes to people supporting the existence of homosexuality but not bisexuality. People are attracted to all sorts of different things and thats fine- it exists, it happens.
I don't know why people are calling this gay/bi/straight stuff 'labeling' ive never understood that. As if it was a bad stereotype. It's just saying what the truth is- If you're only physically attracted to the same sex you are gay, if you are only attracted to the opposite sex you are straight, and if you are physically attracted to both you are bisexual. To me its just a genetic fact sort of thing. Like our gender or hair color. It doesn't mean im LABELING someone or degrading them if I want them to accept the fact that they are blond. So why does it get confusing when people are honest about sexuality? 
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It's hard to argue with that.
I just take into account circumstances (common ones) where sexual behavior is not limited to a construct...that's why I focus my argument around intuitive attraction. But my first comment was phrased poorly and it caused a mess.
Whatever you know you're attracted to is fine for you. That much is true.
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It's more annoying when gay people say they're bisexual.
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I have this thing that's been kind of boggling my mind lately.
Im a girl. I've always been attracted to both sexes. I've dated and have had sex with women, but nothing long term yet. There's absolutely no way I could deny my attraction to either one, physically or romantically. But, why is it when I envision my future, in terms of marriage, kids, and the like... I picture a man on default? Like, I have my future "settling down" plans revolving around a man. A woman doesn't even enter my mind in that area until I, one day, find a woman I'm attracted to and vice versa and I fantasize about how it would be with her in a committed relationship, our future, etc. A man seems to generally be on default for me and that is the ONLY thing that sometimes makes me question my identity.
Are their any bisexuals who have the same dilemma?
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i think its more common for people to refuse to admit to being gay so instead say they are bisexual
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me complete gay (pure bottom) 
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I have this thing that's been kind of boggling my mind lately.
Im a girl. I've always been attracted to both sexes. I've dated and have had sex with women, but nothing long term yet. There's absolutely no way I could deny my attraction to either one, physically or romantically. But, why is it when I envision my future, in terms of marriage, kids, and the like... I picture a man on default? Like, I have my future "settling down" plans revolving around a man. A woman doesn't even enter my mind in that area until I, one day, find a woman I'm attracted to and vice versa and I fantasize about how it would be with her in a committed relationship, our future, etc. A man seems to generally be on default for me and that is the ONLY thing that sometimes makes me question my identity.
Are their any bisexuals who have the same dilemma?
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Your sexuality is just attraction pretty much (Lot of people try to make it more complicated then it is).
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6/4/2012, 6:17 AM
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I mostly see gay guys claiming to be bisexual, when they are clearly gay. For some, bisexuality is just the first route on the road to gayness.
Never seen it the other way around...
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I have this thing that's been kind of boggling my mind lately.
Im a girl. I've always been attracted to both sexes. I've dated and have had sex with women, but nothing long term yet. There's absolutely no way I could deny my attraction to either one, physically or romantically. But, why is it when I envision my future, in terms of marriage, kids, and the like... I picture a man on default? Like, I have my future "settling down" plans revolving around a man. A woman doesn't even enter my mind in that area until I, one day, find a woman I'm attracted to and vice versa and I fantasize about how it would be with her in a committed relationship, our future, etc. A man seems to generally be on default for me and that is the ONLY thing that sometimes makes me question my identity.
Are their any bisexuals who have the same dilemma?
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Lady gaga has that same dilemma. She can't get romantically involved in a long term relationship with another woman. I think its harder for bisexual people to see themselves getting married and settling down with the same sex because growing up it was so much more acceptable/normal to settle down and get married with the opposite sex.
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I do that.
They don't need to know if I'm bisexual or not. And with the current society it's hard to say I'm bisexual.
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8/25/2012, 3:27 AM
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Yes it bothers me, people shouldn't be afraid of coming out.
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I do that.
They don't need to know if I'm bisexual or not. And with the current society it's hard to say I'm bisexual.
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Bisexual = gross. Just my opinion.
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