[boyonce]

i was going to put something Pinky And The Brain related in the title, due to the world dominance and all...wanna bet the majority of kids on this board wouldn't even get the reference???

[rwoznia]

Originally posted by boyonce

i was going to put something Pinky And The Brain related in the title, due to the world dominance and all...wanna bet the majority of kids on this board wouldn't even get the reference???

They probably won't.

[boyonce]

Originally posted by rwoznia

They probably won't.

I die when their "OMG REMEMBER..." threads discuss Hannah Montana as a way back playback.

The other day I read someone saying they loved Pon Da Replay when it came out...and they were 8 at the time.

[KyKy]

I can't at how influential I am in ATRL.

[Ammer]

Originally posted by KyKy

Welcome back Ammer

Originally posted by boyonce

always good to see you in here Ammer!

Aw, thanks guys

[YourMadGesty]

I'm here for world dominɑtion!
And the first thing on our ɑgendɑ should be to suck the youth out of those youthful bɑstɑrds kids in Youth Nɑtion!

[J P]

What a day. Besides sitting in the cold rain for 4 1/2 hours, it was a great day! I love the Stampede, and am sad its over.

I also saw someone who looked a lot like David Henrie there too.

I spent $60 on midway food with no regrets.

Oh and I am here for us taking over the world.

[Harajuku]

Hey guys what are we talking about here?

[Vato]

Guys, I hate to change the subject but I'm in desperate need of mature advice

Here's the thing: Someone very close to me was recently diagnosed with cancer. It was a very difficult shock but I've come to accept it. His doctor says he has a very high chance of overcoming this with chemo, because it was detected early enough, BUT (there had to be a but ), my loved one completely refuses treatment for fear of the side effects. We have all talked to him about the consequences of refusing treatment (his death),but his mind seems to be made up and he seems ready to leave this world
It has been very hard watching him in pain and watching his health deteriorate over the last few months, and we're simply running out of time for treatment, but he just won't accept treatment no matter what.

I know in the end it's his decision because he's already an adult (he's 21 years-old), but his decision is just too hard on the whole family, we simply refuse to let him go. What should I do? Let him go and accept the fact he won't be with us in a matter of months so I can find some peace of mind, or fight until the end for his life and keep trying to convince him to go through the ****ing chemo?

[Yourfavefan]

Originally posted by Vato

Guys, I hate to change the subject but I'm in desperate need of mature advice

Here's the thing: Someone very close to me was recently diagnosed with cancer. It was a very difficult shock but I've come to accept it. His doctor says he has a very high chance of overcoming this with chemo, because it was detected early enough, BUT (there had to be a but ), my loved one completely refuses treatment for fear of the side effects. We have all talked to him about the consequences of refusing treatment (his death),but his mind seems to be made up and he seems ready to leave this world
It has been very hard watching him in pain and watching his health deteriorate over the last few months, and we're simply running out of time for treatment, but he just won't accept treatment no matter what.

I know in the end it's his decision because he's already an adult (he's 21 years-old), but his decision is just too hard on the whole family, we simply refuse to let him go. What should I do? Let him go and accept the fact he won't be with us in a matter of months so I can find some peace of mind, or fight until the end for his life and keep trying to convince him to go through the ****ing chemo?

Omg

I have no idea how to attack this problem. I however would never want to see anyone die. I would keep fighting especially if the person means the world to me. I would ask why would he want to die. Why is he accepting defeat? Does he not have anyone he cares about and wants to see them grow, or grow with? Does he really want to risk someone else life by giving up and not fighting? What side affects is he scared of? Isn't death scarier?

This is of course things to ask if you want to convince him. I am sure you already did. I wish you luck. it sounds super scary. I am sorry i can't help more

[Yourfavefan]

I have been good all this time. but today my thought kinda shook me up.. i got tear. I hate my head sometimes

[Delita_chan]

You've already done what you could, Vato, but if you, his closet friends, cannot convince him, then I don't know what else you can do.
The only thing you can do is make life fun for the moment - have some good times, do fun things, make him laugh and smile. Perhaps he will realize how much he has left to live and turn around for treatment; on the other hand, if his mind is set on this, then at least let him enjoy the last days of his life in happiness and peace. I know it hurts you a lot, but if you keep pushing him, he'll leave the world with a lot of guilt (I'm making everyone sad). Thing is, he may have a phobia to medicine or hospitals and it's something that's almost impossible to overcome.
I say this because there are people out there who REFUSE to see a doctor and refuse medicine. They will literally block themselves in a room in order to prevent being taken to a hospital. Your loved one may be that way.
Stay by his side and enjoy your time together.

[boyonce]

wow, Vato - that is incredibly, incredibly tough. I feel for you, your loved one, and your entire family. I can't even imagine the pain and anguish you must be feeling right now, and am not even sure I can offer much wisdom to the situation, other than, keep your head up.

What Delita_chan said is pretty much bang on, as tough as that decision is to make, in the end, it is his to make as he wants. I liked what was said too about just enjoying the time you have left.

Wow, I am so so so sorry this is happening. All the best.

[rwoznia]

Originally posted by Vato

Guys, I hate to change the subject but I'm in desperate need of mature advice

Here's the thing: Someone very close to me was recently diagnosed with cancer. It was a very difficult shock but I've come to accept it. His doctor says he has a very high chance of overcoming this with chemo, because it was detected early enough, BUT (there had to be a but ), my loved one completely refuses treatment for fear of the side effects. We have all talked to him about the consequences of refusing treatment (his death),but his mind seems to be made up and he seems ready to leave this world
It has been very hard watching him in pain and watching his health deteriorate over the last few months, and we're simply running out of time for treatment, but he just won't accept treatment no matter what.

I know in the end it's his decision because he's already an adult (he's 21 years-old), but his decision is just too hard on the whole family, we simply refuse to let him go. What should I do? Let him go and accept the fact he won't be with us in a matter of months so I can find some peace of mind, or fight until the end for his life and keep trying to convince him to go through the ****ing chemo?

Like the others were saying Vato, your friend can't be pressured into taking the treatment. They have to pursue and want that for themselves. Be there for your friend in whatever capacity they need you. I'm sorry you have to go through this. Will add a few side prayers for you tonight.

[KyKy]

Vato do some research on natural treatments, I have heard of such places where they will inject Vitamin C into the person for treatments. I think if I ever had cancer I would go the natural route. The kemo and meds cancer patients take pretty much kill the immune system & Vitamin C even Amino Acid treatments can help. Doctors, however are looked down upon for doing this as to defer money away from these horrible prescription drug companies and the FDA. Do you ever wonder what all these billions of dollars donated to cancer research does. There is a cure, the government nor drug companies just don't want us to know. It is really ****ed up and pisses me off. Same with AIDs .

[Vato]

Thanks everyone for the support. Especially Delita_chan, that was beautiful

[boyonce]

keep us posted Vato

[Albany Guest]

Originally posted by boyonce

i was going to put something Pinky And The Brain related in the title, due to the world dominance and all...wanna bet the majority of kids on this board wouldn't even get the reference???

They also deny the greatness that is Batman the Animated Series :shame:

[boyonce]

Fave childhood TV shows? Go.

I was always partial to Hey Arnold.

[boyonce]

ICONIC.