I love being a bottom. It shouldn't be a problem keeping it tight if you aren't a little Jezebel. Mine ALWAYS goes back to it's original tightness withing the next two days. I love the feeling. No problems here.
I've noticed that most ATRL members hate the feminine gay guys. I don't get it, though. They're just like you. Just because you like to convince people that you're a macho, masculine gay guy doesn't give you the right to hate the openly feminine ones.