[delightfulpeeks]

Anyways, I told my closest online friends a few years ago. My parents found out through that so my inner family has known but doesn't acknowledge it. I just told my closest friend in the Fall and that's it.

[SOTDH]

I'm a transvestite, so yes.

[mons†er]

Yes.
It's pretty obvious if you're smart.
I don't scream it or wear it on my sleeve but
if you ask I have no reason to say no.

[lpd446]

Originally posted by mons†er

Yes.
It's pretty obvious if you're smart.
I don't scream it or wear it on my sleeve but
if you ask I have no reason to say no.

I CANT TELL IF PEOPLE ARE GAY!!!!!!!!

IT DRIVES ME CRAZY







help plz...

[jqnetto]

I'm not gay.

[yogosans14]

Everybody at my school act's gay towards each other, like they grab each others asses and hump each other and
one of my friends always says "I'm Gay" all the time and it's annoying cause i know he isnt gay, he has had gfs and he has one right now

Or mabye he is

[ManDown]

Originally posted by delightfulpeeks

How can anyone say this? Obviously being gay has no correlation to the way you act, but it is a huge part of your life. It's on the same level as gender, race, and cultural background. If it wasn't then you wouldn't even know you were gay and you would just be asexual.

What I meant was I am alot of other things besides a homosexual. I don't let it define my entire personality. You know? Meaning, there are alot of other things that I would place ahead of it as important pieces of who I am. It's obviously a huge part of my life, but not THE most important part. Same with my race and gender. If somebody allows their sexuality to define their whole being, then wow.

[Crazy Lights]

Yes, I'm out at work. I actually work with 2 other gay guys. I didn't tell everybody at first but I wasn't trying to hide it. One day a coworker asked me and I told her I was. They were surprised because I'm pretty masculine But they don't treat me any differently. Were all pretty open with each other at work.

[ManDown]

Originally posted by Crazy Lights

Yes, I'm out at work. I actually work with 2 other gay guys. I didn't tell everybody at first but I wasn't trying to hide it. One day a coworker asked me and I told her I was. They were surprised because I'm pretty masculine But they don't treat me any differently. Were all pretty open with each other at work.

What's it like working with other gay guys? To be honest, I don't know how I would feel about that. Don't get me wrong, the more, the merrier, but it's kind of cool being the minority. Anyway, it's great that they're accepting.

[kgeezy310]

at schoool: yes at work: no....the girls tell me i have a nice ass and touch my butt alot...i cant break it to them yet.

[Crazy Lights]

Originally posted by Kin

What's it like working with other gay guys? To be honest, I don't know how I would feel about that. Don't get me wrong, the more, the merrier, but it's kind of cool being the minority. Anyway, it's great that they're accepting.

It can be fun. I'm really good friends with one of them. Every time we see a hot or good looking guy in the store were just like "Would you?" to each other

The other guy is okay but he has such a diva/bitchy attitude. The kind that gives gays a bad name

But overall, it's not bad. You have another guy who can really relate to you.

[lpd446]

Originally posted by Crazy Lights

It can be fun. I'm really good friends with one of them. Every time we see a hot or good looking guy in the store were just like "Would you?" to each other

The other guy is okay but he has such a diva/bitchy attitude. The kind that gives gays a bad name

But overall, it's not bad. You have another guy who can really relate to you.

Ikr thats why I cant come out at school because I dont want to be stereotyped with this other asshole that is already out

[ManDown]

Originally posted by Crazy Lights

It can be fun. I'm really good friends with one of them. Every time we see a hot or good looking guy in the store were just like "Would you?" to each other

The other guy is okay but he has such a diva/bitchy attitude. The kind that gives gays a bad name

But overall, it's not bad. You have another guy who can really relate to you.

That's good. It would be nice to be able to have somebody you have so much in common with at work. The girls at work do that to me sometimes. When they see a hot straight or gay guy, they'll ask the same thing. It's cute, though. It really shows that people are accepting of it.

And I know exactly what you mean about those kind of gays. They're the reason why I will NEVER ever work in a mall store, because many gay employees there are like that.

It would just be hard not developing romantic feelings since you're together all day, you know? Well, I guess it depends on the person, but still. It could go either way.

[delightfulpeeks]

Originally posted by Kin

What I meant was I am alot of other things besides a homosexual. I don't let it define my entire personality. You know? Meaning, there are alot of other things that I would place ahead of it as important pieces of who I am. It's obviously a huge part of my life, but not THE most important part. Same with my race and gender. If somebody allows their sexuality to define their whole being, then wow.

Oh, I completely agree with you here. But you said it doesn't even make up "a small fraction" which I definitely don't agree with.

[tcweh]

No. not even my family knows. Not sure if i'll even tell them. I suffer from major anxiety

[Crazy Lights]

Originally posted by lpd446

Ikr thats why I cant come out at school because I dont want to be stereotyped with this other asshole that is already out

Aww that sucks. I'm sure you're a good guy. You coming out wouldn't change that about you. It sucks that some people can't see that.

Originally posted by Kin

That's good. It would be nice to be able to have somebody you have so much in common with at work. The girls at work do that to me sometimes. When they see a hot straight or gay guy, they'll ask the same thing. It's cute, though. It really shows that people are accepting of it.

And I know exactly what you mean about those kind of gays. They're the reason why I will NEVER ever work in a mall store, because many gay employees there are like that.

It would just be hard not developing romantic feelings since you're together all day, you know? Well, I guess it depends on the person, but still. It could go either way.

Yeah the girls I work with do it too.

I work a CVS and that guy acts like that and you can see customers making faces or talking about him. He's a good employee, I just wish he would handle situations differently and think before he talks.

The guy I'm good friends with and I do end up working together a lot and we do flirt with each other often. But it's pretty harmless. He has a boyfriend and I would never want to be known as the other guy and ruin his relationship.

[telmomarques]

Yes.

[eli's_rhythm]

Originally posted by Kin

What I meant was I am alot of other things besides a homosexual. I don't let it define my entire personality. You know? Meaning, there are alot of other things that I would place ahead of it as important pieces of who I am. It's obviously a huge part of my life, but not THE most important part. Same with my race and gender. If somebody allows their sexuality to define their whole being, then wow.

Does gayness define anyone's entire personality? I get really annoyed when gay guys say stuff like this. It seems so internally homophobic.

Also,

alot

http://hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.co...thing.html?m=1

[Maven]

Kind of, but I barely talk about my personal life at school/work anyway (probably because I don't have a life to begin with tbh).

[.aR]

NOOOO NEVER