[KoreanDream]

Originally posted by MrHiphy

What do you think parents do with rebellious, difficult children? Should they just give up on them and let them ruin their lives?

Rihanna isn't my child and I'm not her parent. Besides, jumping ship sends a message to her that she needs help, since she clearly doesn't know she does. Continuing to support her doesn't.

[musicman27]

Originally posted by herohoney

Rihanna's 'Birthday Cake': Reasons To Listen
http://www.npr.org/blogs/therecord/2...sons-to-listen

OMG are those really the lyrics to BC, I just can't believe all parties involved didnt think about how this would sound.

[JungleDisturbia]

I don't understand why the fallen Navy still post here, though. Like, have your opinions, but don't post them in her base thread when you've "publically" dropped her.

We get it, y'all don't stan for Rihanna anymore. We don't need continuous posts in her base thread talking about how disappointed and shocked y'all are when you're not even here for her anymore. Talk about her in SYG or wall each other or something.

Sorry if this comes off as rude, but if you've dropped her, I don't see the point of still posting in her base thread.

[MrHiphy]

Originally posted by KoreanDream

Rihanna isn't my child and I'm not her parent.

Nor do you know her personally but that hasn't stopped you from being hurt. IF you claim to support her and you follow her every move (which parents do...or wish they could do), then shame on you for dropping like a fly when she hurts your feelings. Right now she needs the support system of her fans because she will receive media backlash, and even if she deserves it, if you were a true stan you'd be there for her.

I would hope that if I **** up once everyone doesn't just leave me hanging. Cause that just shows me how fake and unsupportive and careless everyone is.

Everyone needs to stop taking this to heart and see this from Rihanna's perspective and acknowledge that she needs help.

[KoreanDream]

Originally posted by JungleDisturbia

I don't understand why the fallen Navy still post here, though. Like, have your opinions, but don't post them in her base thread when you've "publically" dropped her.

We get it, y'all don't stan for Rihanna anymore. We don't need continuous posts in her base thread talking about how disappointed and shocked y'all are when you're not even here for her anymore. Talk about her in SYG or wall each other or something.

Sorry if this comes off as rude, but if you've dropped her, I don't see the point of still posting in her base thread.

Bye then. Cute how y'all like me until I stop stanning.

[Panthe☈a]

Lay off the good sis KD

And I'msoLOUD or whatever the heck your username is, lets take this to NHB, I don't need the warning points.

[JungleDisturbia]

Originally posted by KoreanDream

Bye then. Cute how y'all like me until I stop stanning.

Where did I say I didn't like you?

I'm confused why you're still here if you dropped Rihanna, but I still like you. That goes for other 'fallen Navy', too. I don't dislike anyone that jumped ship, but to keep coming back and telling us how disappointed you are and how you put her merchandise in a box or whatever is not helping the situation at all. It's not pleasant being a stan and watching "ex-Navy" remind you over and over again that they're not here for her.

[KoreanDream]

Originally posted by JungleDisturbia

Where did I say I didn't like you?

I'm confused why you're still here if you dropped Rihanna, but I still like you. That goes for other 'fallen Navy', too. I don't dislike anyone that jumped ship, but to keep coming back and telling us how disappointed you are and how you put her merchandise in a box or whatever is not helping the situation at all. It's not pleasant being a stan and watching "ex-Navy" remind you over and over again that they're not here for her.

I shared my thoughts in here instead of in SYG because the other stanbases love meltdowns and I didn't want to feed them fuel. Bye .

[Panthe☈a]

I just want this bitch to explain her need to have Chris Brown of all people on Birthday Cake. I mean I understand if she wanted to collaborate with him or let people know that the past is done with, but WHY on this song of all songs?

[Nvr]

So much fighting

[Cali.]

Originally posted by Nvr

So much fighting

Right?

We should just all hold hands, form a circle and sing We All Want Love.

[Panthe☈a]

Originally posted by Nvr

So much fighting

Imagine if I wasn't holding back what I want to say. I mean.....this place would be worse then the Born This Way Ball if you threw Hard Candy into the Monster Pit.

[Katie]

Originally posted by MrHiphy

Sis, sometimes it just gets to be too much when every time you come in this thread it's "Oh my gawd, I couldn't sleep at night."

Okay, she made the remix. The world isn't over. Go on with your lives.

And let me not get on how CLEARLY Rihanna needs more support now because she definitely isn't at a time in her life where she's making the best decisions. People should reach out and support her recovery, not leave her high and dry to continue her antics.

So we need to support her when she messes up in life, but we shouldn't feel depressed when she does something depressing? And we're supposed to support her, but not create emotional attachment to someone we haven't met?

People stan at different levels. Add to the fact that we're not talking about something like a flop song or bad video...it's a serious issue that a lot of people may have connections with.

[SayIt]

Why did Rihanna post the download link on twitter? Is it not getting released properly?

[MrHiphy]

Originally posted by Katie

So we need to support her when she messes up in life, but we shouldn't feel depressed when she does something depressing? And we're supposed to support her, but not create emotional attachment to someone we haven't met?

People stan at different levels. Add to the fact that we're not talking about something like a flop song or bad video...it's a serious issue that a lot of people may have connections with.

Well if you're going to have emotional attachment to her, don't spend it being down, angry, and depressed, which is too extreme to begin with. You should support her not as in go out and tweet about the remix for promo, but be there for her in her time of need because whether you realize it or not she didn't think before she did this and the last thing she needs is her fans leaving before she even has a chance to redeem herself. Being there for her doesn't require an emotional attachment, but if an attachment is present that should strengthen the being there for her. It's as simple as accepting her apology, tweeting encouraging words, and supporting her future endeavors if they are to be positive.

[Panthe☈a]

Originally posted by MrHiphy

Well if you're going to have emotional attachment to her, don't spend it being down, angry, and depressed, which is too extreme to begin with. You should support her not as in go out and tweet about the remix for promo, but be there for her in her time of need because whether you realize it or not she didn't think before she did this and the last thing she needs is her fans leaving before she even has a chance to redeem herself. Being there for her doesn't require an emotional attachment, but if an attachment is present that should strengthen the being there for her. It's as simple as accepting her apology, tweeting encouraging words, and supporting her future endeavors if they are to be positive.

Or dragging her for the dumb mess she's been actin lately. That works too.

[Nvr]

Originally posted by CaliQueenSelena

Right?

We should just all hold hands, form a circle and sing We All Want Love.

I'm here for that, I'll get the vanilla scented candles and prayer mats

Originally posted by Panthera

Imagine if I wasn't holding back what I want to say. I mean.....this place would be worse then the Born This Way Ball if you threw Hard Candy into the Monster Pit.

I know people haven't gotten over the whole ordeal and I don't expect you to if it effected you in that way. But, if you've completely jumped ship I don't see the point in coming back just to stir up trouble (not talking about anyone in particular, just in general). Just take it as a musical loss and let the remaining Navy "regroup" and deal with it this BC drama, that's all I'm saying.

You and that gif is too much

[MrHiphy]

Originally posted by Panthera

Or dragging her for the dumb mess she's been actin lately. That works too.

If that's what you'd like to do, feel free. But all you do is add to her recklessness cause in her eyes you'll just be another pressed soul "talking that talk."

[Panthe☈a]

Originally posted by MrHiphy

If that's what you'd like to do, feel free. But all you do is add to her recklessness cause in her eyes you'll just be another pressed soul "talking that talk."

Do you pay attention the ****s she replies to on twitter? She obviously doesn't care about her loving stans who compliment her and help her through ****.

She likes Grannys lickin the icing off cupcakes, and dragging random girls with red hair that say they are her twin. She doesn't give a **** on Twitter, its a mess.

[Katie]

Originally posted by MrHiphy

Well if you're going to have emotional attachment to her, don't spend it being down, angry, and depressed, which is too extreme to begin with. You should support her not as in go out and tweet about the remix for promo, but be there for her in her time of need because whether you realize it or not she didn't think before she did this and the last thing she needs is her fans leaving before she even has a chance to redeem herself. Being there for her doesn't require an emotional attachment, but if an attachment is present that should strengthen the being there for her. It's as simple as accepting her apology, tweeting encouraging words, and supporting her future endeavors if they are to be positive.

But I didn't leave her. I never trashed her. I didn't even say anything bad about her. I've been warning people for trashing her on this site. Once I sort out my emotions I'll be back to loving her. I just need to get to that point, but I'm unsure of how to get there. I was only commenting on how you were judging people for their emotional attachments or their reactions.