[Moonage Daydream]

I could never be in one for the very reasons the OP described. I would inevitably develop feelings for that person. I don't think I could even emotionally detach myself from a one night stand.

[shanners]

Originally posted by EdgeOfAddiction

+1.

Put it in a Love Song.

Fixed.....and never release it.....


Sis for real let him go...You deserve better then to be used for sexual favors...He is taking your love(or lust) for granted and that is just not okay. End it now it may hurt but you will thank yourself in the future...Best of luck my friend

[FreeAsMyWeave]

End it.
Reason being is that he will hold you back from finding someone who will love you for who you are and not just sex. He will treat you so much better, will give you the sex you want and his love, and you will feel SO much better when you have someone like that than the person you have now.

[Sláy]

Originally posted by rwoznia

It's been my belief that you try to wait until you find the right person you want to be in an intimate relationship with before you have sex with them Otherwise, continued "playtime" will get you into trouble. Avoid **** buddies in the future and wait til you're in a committed relationship before you start getting down.

MTE

[vonno]

They've worked fine for me, had 4. One fb relationship even went 5 months & ended mutually. I discuss & have rules with fb's. Make sure it is someone I do not know before hand, we build a genuine friendship - eg, get along well, no mutual friends/family & take safety precautions, I always say to them as soon as one person begins to develop feelings its time to end it, no hard feelings. A big no-no for me is cuddling/affection, thats for relationships. It should remain purely sex. They can work, for a certain amount of time, but tread carefully.

[Ammer]

I definitely am not in one (in a wonderful committed relationship), but have been offered the "**** buddy" role. I've never been interested as someone always develops feelings, and ends up getting hurt.

To be quite frank, having a **** buddy would simply make me feel like they're masturbating with my body. The reason being that it's empty, emotionless, and cold. It could be me, someone else, or their hand and it wouldn't make a difference. I'd like to think I'm more valuable than that.

[Thierry]

Gerl. Don't confuse the **** with love. You are still young! Have mercy on your body. It's too obvious that he's using you. You deserve better than him. Get away before you reach the point of no return. Find yourself a hot boy who loves you instead.

[Midnight]

I'm not here for it because I know I'll wind up feeling something for the other person and they'll feel nothing for me. I'm not having sex anymore (3 months now ) until I find a guy who's willing to stay around and wants more than sex.

[okiam]

Pretty much hate them.
Real relationships are so hard to come by. You don't want to be used up by the time he/or she finally comes

[JonnyϟLightning]

Maybe it's because Im an asshole, but one of my recent relationships was a **** buddy and it was good.
I didnt call him, text, or anything unless I needed dick.

[Chrome]

This is the problem with ****buddies. People eventually catch feelings and at the end one person is left needing and wanting a relationship. Meh. Stop contacting him. He sounds like a major bitch anyways. Find that good **** elsewhere.

[∆ Emyromania ∆]

Not my style.

[WhyYouMadTho]

I'm reading all of your responses, thanks a lot for your help guys. Looks like I've made my decision...

[LONGWAY2GO.]

I only **** people i date so i wouldn't know

[RainMan]

Someone always gets hurt and is left wanting something more.

[J P]

Not here for **** buddies anymore.

[BnPac]

This story is heartbreaking. You should just move ON as hard as it can be. You are just being used.

[Golden]

Originally posted by conseeded

Right?

[Golden]

Originally posted by JonnyϟLightning

Maybe it's because Im an asshole, but one of my recent relationships was a **** buddy and it was good.
I didnt call him, text, or anything unless I needed dick.

Um.

[Orsay]

All I have to say is you need to move on girl. I mean other than the 27 year age gap it sounds like he really just isn't interested in you for anything other than sex.

The best advice I could give you for moving on is focus on YOU. Sometimes when you're so distraught and hung up over someone you begin to forget about yourself and what an amazing person you are. Focus the energy you spend thinking about him on doing positive **** for yourself! Be a selfish mother****er! Hell, you're 20, leave that old man for some cougar if he really trynna get with Team V.